I wouldnt use the word wrong, but I do think you should wait because your body is maturing physically and mentally.
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I don’t think there is really a “right time” to generalize for everyone. I think it just depends on the individual. If it is what you wanted to do than that’s fine. It was your decision, and people can disapprove all they want but at the end of the day, they don’t matter.
I think that you should tell any future partners, they do have the right to know.. besides them no. It is no one else’s business that you have had sex.
Perfectly fine, its none of their business anyway.
It’s not a bad thing if you feel you made the right choice. Dont let anyone else tell you whats wrong or right.
I seriously wanna chop someones balls off for these stupid things.
Hmm, that’s tough. But I think that you should ask him to hang out over the summer if you’re both free or something casual. He sounds kinda sketchy though with always dodging on plans. Maybe he has a lot going on or something. If you figure out that he isn’t interested then maybe just drop it and move on..you don’t wanna hurt your heart <3
Well for starters high school sucks. I don’t think anyone ever has that perfect high school life that we have all dreamed about. Everyone has troubles and everyone goes through similar situations. I am saying that not to make you feel like your problems are insignificant.. but to let you know that you are not alone. There are many other people who have lost loved ones or had grandparents be in the hospital and even more of us that have had serious boyfriends dump us. I doubt he dumped you because the other girl was prettier, unless he is a complete dick. Maybe he just felt like it was time or I don’t know really. But regardless of his reasons, you can take this as a great time to do some things for you. Find something else you love, get back out there and date other boys. You had been with him for most of your high school experience so it seems like you could use a little variety in your love life. It does suck that you had expectations of a future with him, but I promise you are going to go off to college soon and you will be glad you didn’t have him there holding you back.
Why have all your friends left you? I don’t know what to tell you about that one without getting more information. All I know is is that over the years I have had many different friends, some of which have been constant and some have which have come in and out of my life, some returning. But if you make the effort to be someones friend, especially if you had once been friends, things usually work out unless you did something to hurt their feelings and they aren’t willing to forgive you.
Please don’t consider self harm or whatever it is you are doing. There are many other resources and things you can turn to. One of my friends used to harm themselves and it only leads to worse things. Please don’t start down a path that is very hard to get back out of, I can help you find something different to help relieve the pain. I like to cope with things by writing. So maybe you could buy a journal or make a personal tumblr that you don’t tell anyone about.. or you could talk to your parents or someone else that you trust , sometimes they are the best at giving advice even when you least expect it.
I hope that helps and I hope you weren’t waiting too long for this advice, I have been very busy with school and I know Brian has had finals to study for. I hope that you come back to us and help us by filling in the gaps and we can help you out as much as we can (: I promise you we’re always here for you even if you feel no one in the world is. Keep your head up dear.
Advice would be to be yourself lol. Even if you think you are gay, I mean come on tumblr is the perfect place to be open about it and find out about yourself. Talk to this new girl and see whats up with her. I 300% get the not socially acceptable part because I have the same exact problem, but theres no rush to figure yourself out. Even if you decide you want to date another girl, theres nothing wrong with that, even if you want to keep it on the DL just so you guys are more comfortable in public, thats fine. But yeah definitely express yourself on tumblr and experiment. You’ll begin to find out what you want haha
Then go for it, I mean whats the worst that can happen? Wait let me correct myself. Dont “go for it” but talk to him and see what happens. Just take it slow, maybe meet up and whatnot. Just dont push anything too hard,
Okay thats totally fine! Dont think of it as a bad thing, or something you dont know what to do about because thats perfectly fine. I mean the most you can do is talk to him and be friends, I mean why not haha
Hey, so this is brian lol.
Ummm the first thing is, is your best friend that left for her country coming back? You said her contract was up for 2 years but is she getting another one and will be coming back? If she is coming back then he is off limits because most likely when she does come back they are still gonna be dating and you would obviously wanna stay loyal to her. However if she is there for good, I would start noticing some signs and see how things go. If he wants a relationship with you or starts to like you and you have the same feelings, why not go for it. Just make sure your friend that moved knows that things are over between her and the guy. But for now I would honestly just not make any moves yet and see what happens aha. Good luck :)
Hmmmm, you could go classic with candy/flowers. But I always think it’s adorable when people redo like other dates. Like maybe take her the first place you guys ever went out together, or the first place you ever kissed, or just something cute that also means you spent time thinking about it! :)
